Do you know that if you do not date a generous man, you may not understand how much he loves to provide for his woman? Well, at least Nigerian actress Frances China Ben thinks so and even went ahead to share this on her Instagram page.
To be fair, there is absolutely nothing a man who is in love wouldn’t do for his woman especially if she reciprocates his feelings and is hardworking. Have we even mentioned her being supportive?
However, this isn’t always the case, unfortunately. There are men that are generally regarded as generous but prefer to spend on others including friends and relatives. When it comes to caring for their own woman, their generosity suddenly dries up and their palms tightened.
In fact, some might not take care of their own woman’s basic needs despite her own earnings not being sufficient.
Before you start judging all men as the same in this regard, let NollywoodCelebs give you at least 5 reasons why a generous man would not “love” to provide on his woman.
Financial Constraints: Some generous men may prioritize other financial responsibilities ahead of certain needs of their women. This will go a long way in limiting their extravagant spending especially if it is on unnecessary luxury items.
Personal Values: Do you know that some men prefer to show love and their generosity through other ways other than gifts? These days, women think a man only loves if he spends heavily. They totally play down the emotional support, quality time and acts of service provided by their men.
Respect for Independence: There are men whose mentality is to empower their partners towards independence and self-sufficiency. They feel this is more investment worthy than merely relying on material provisions.
Mutual Decision-Making: Some healthy relationships are partly built on mutual agreements to have financial boundaries regarding ways to express love and support.
Respect for Individual Preferences: A generous man sometimes respects his own partner’s preferences and priorities. Hence, he would prefer to invest in areas that align with both their needs and desires. It is important to note that this may not solely focus on material possessions.
Overall, the “Burnt Twice” actress made a strong reason for the generous man. She wrote;
“Until you date a generous man, you’ll never understand how much men love to provide for their woman.
Not rich, but generous.”
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