Sedater Saviour Jimmy has disclosed one of the most toxic things that she has done in her life. The popular Nollywood actress made this known via a post that she shared on her Instagram page.
According to the “My Life My Fate” actress, she has had to put up with certain “toxic things” just to keep people in her life.
However, Sedater Saviour expressed regrets while stating clearly that it will not happen again. The movie star wrote:
“One of the most toxic things have done is ignoring the bad in someone just bcos I wanted to keep them in my life, never again will that be”.
Truthfully, we all have people in our lives who we care about deeply despite their negative qualities which can sometimes make it difficult to maintain a healthy relationship.
Despite this, we do all that can be done to overlook these flaws in order to keep the person in our lives. However, as Nollywood actress Sedater Saviour Jimmy pointed out, this can be a toxic behaviour that ultimately does more harm than good.
Although when one chooses to ignore the bad in someone, it may appear to be a noble act of forgiveness and even understanding, but the truth is that it usually has serious consequences for both the person doing the ignoring and the person being ignored.
Most experienced people in life will agree that when one chooses to ignore negative behaviour in someone they care about, it is essentially giving them permission to continue behaving in that way without any consequences.
This can ultimately lead to toxic dynamic in which the other person takes advantage of one’s willingness to overlook their flaws. So do not be surprised when you begin to feel resentful towards them and full of regrets like Sedater Saviour Jimmy noted.
