Prince Ugo Malumi has shared his thoughts about relationships in which the partner has never cried over certain things or even show emotional reactions. The Nollywood actor thinks such a person is not pure hearted and as such, such a romance needs to end. Before we go any further, do you agree with the “Don’t Leave Me” star and why?
He wrote;
“If your partner has never cried or gets emotional about certain things. They’re not pure hearted. Run for your life!”
Anyway, such a topic can be thrown up for debate as there are bound to be those who do not necessarily share Prince Ugo’s perception.
But why would a partner not show any form of emotions in a relationship in the first place? Here are 5 reasons:
Emotional Guardedness: Some partners have trained themselves not to show any form of vulnerability in their relationship. This could be as a result of traumas or emotional wounds they previously experienced.
Cultural Upbringing: Did you know that cultural norms and upbringing can easily influence how a partner expresses emotions? Sometimes, men are expected to suppress theirs as it could be looked at as showing signs of weakness for a man to cry in a relationship. He would be regarded as weak and immature. Wait, would you as a lady be proud of such a man?
Communication Style: Some partners do not know how to express their emotions verbally or through gestures. Mind you, this doesn’t mean they are not hurt or have no feelings.
Fear of Rejection: There’s no doubt that this is sufficient reason for a partner to bottle up their feelings, as crying or showing emotions in that manner may make one fear rejection.
Personality Traits: Introversion or stoicism are personality traits that make people show fewer emotions compared to others. Such people may not necessarily cry openly in their relationships, but it doesn’t mean that they have no feelings for their partner or even appreciate the relationship.
However, for Nollywood actor Prince Ugo Malumi to suggest that such partners should be dumped might be acting a bit prematurely.
There were reactions in the comment section of the post.
When his colleague, Ugegbe Ajaelo saw the post, she jokingly stated that her heart is hardened. This suggests that there will be no crying or getting emotional about certain things in her love life. She wrote: “Be looking for cry cry baby! Me am obi akpo”.
Other reactions below.
onyinyechi_akabueze_: “This is not applicable to “Ndi obi akpo” ooo 😂😂😂😂. But you have not cried in a movie 🤣😜😜 na you dey show person shege banza”.
tyler_lucii: “Even Bible says only the pure hearted will see God 😁”.
If you recall, LizzyGold Onuwaje recently disclosed that she has never suffered heartbreak and that she has a hardened like “Kpomo”.
She posted;
“I move on so easily and forget you ever existed …I have a delete botton app in my head , once am done with you I just delete all your memories…we must marry first before I catch feelings 😁To those currently going through heart break my sincere condolence….”
She captioned;
“I have never experienced heartbreak… My heart is made of Kpomo…… before you think of serving me breakfast I have already served you. I don’t love with my head.. I love with my shoulders so if you try to misbehave I will just drop you… I don’t easily catch feelings”.
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