Chioma Jasmine Okafor has disclosed via an Instagram post that she has filed for divorce. Mr Ibu’s daughter discovered that her husband, David, was a divorcee with three grown girls and he never mentioned any of it to her.
According to the content creator, it was her spouse’s mum who disclosed this to her and it “broke” her completely.
Despite this, Chioma described the nine months that she was married as the “best” of her life and that she has no regrets. Not done, she also stated clearly that the union was “beautiful” and “full of love” as her husband “worshiped” her and she appreciates it all.
However, this one lie of not disclosing that he was divorced with three grown girls appears to have betrayed the trust she had in David.
Surprisingly, she said she would not love another and would continue to lovehim from a distance.
She captioned her post;
“This was the best 9 months of my life! I have no regrets whatsoever! I just won’t settle for a lie regardless! I forgive easily, I remember asking you about this severally before we started! Finding out today from your mum, really broke me! A foundation built upon a tiny lie won’t stand! I love how you loved me! But hate how you never mentioned your divorce nor kids to me! Moving on I don’t think I want anybody else! Just gonna love you from a distance!”
Reactions below.
ladygifted2: “I remembered reading about your post on how you met him on TikTok, few days you knew him all and got married ,through that many believed that love doesn’t waste time , maybe he needed time to unfold the truth , this truth doesn’t just come out in some days because he was the one that approached, maybe he was afraid to loose you , he needed some time to unfold”.
its_salamotu: “People underestimate the power of an honest conversation and a romance based on true feelings. He should have let her know the truth and let her be the one to decide for herself. One lie can make someone question everything single thing! Just one lie!”
kneeyeekoka: “Must everything be on social media? I’m tired of this generation.”
chiom_chioom: “People have ways of venting out what they feel,respect her decisions please instead of judging her,just encourage her,it’s what she needs now the most bikonu”.
esewiii: “How is putting this on the internet going to help you? You think people will help you share your pains? LoL the amount of people that will laugh at you and mock you will be higher than those that can see reasons with you! Just take this down and fix up things in private. To find better man hard this days, i pray you find your mr Right”.
lisaimen94: “You don’t need to post this sha, deal with it personally, the internet is never the right place to bring family or personal issues”.
geeluvoby: “If this is true and not some prank, then I respect your decision. He who wears the shoes knows where it pinches. Wishing you guys the best in your life’s endeavours”.
nnaji6095: “Why won’t it happen like this ??wen it was a quick quick marriage????date well and know ur partner but u married him under just two months of barely knowing him”.
jane_kreative: “You where too fast …. too fast … men need to be studied that’s call courtship for at least 2 years”.
sucesful001: “What you did was right how would he lie about his kid nothing concern us with him ex but person wey lie say hin nor get pikin wetin that person nor con fit do”.
paulettenancyt: “That’s not a small lie as you are calling it he who means well can never hide the fact that they were married before and have children? true love doesn’t hide secrets no matter the situation and trust broken can never be restored unless you want to stay and be miserable forever”.
dollypretty4luv: “My dear, if this is true, you got married to a single man. Yes he was divorce and didn’t tell you is bad. But please delete this and talk things out. Not all this internet inlaws. Get angry with him, let it be personal don’t bring it here.”
